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Bro never dismiss your girl’s emotions. sometimes you can lack communication , lack emotion, and you don’t listen to her when she needs you to listen to her.  When something’s bothering her she’s telling you because she wants you to change it , she wants you to fix it. Something is on her mind that she wants to communicate with you, and she wants you to understand how she feels & why she feels the way she does. Sometimes you don’t take that into consideration because you think it’s something small. Just because it’s small to you doesn’t mean it’s small to her. It could be a big deal to her, something that’s real heavy on her heart & heavy on her mind and she wants to communicate these things with you. It might be something you don’t wanna talk about but regardless if you want to or not, it’s something that’s important to her.  So man up & understand where your girl is coming from.

 I hope you find a love that’s easy. Really easy. The type of love where there aren’t any mixed signals, just you and this person looking at each other across the room and know you each have it best. I hope you find a love that’s selfless. The type of person who would do anything for you with no questions asked. The type of love where someone simply has your best interest at heart. The type of love where your happiness makes up so much of theirs. I hope you find a love that’s willing to make sacrifices. The type of person who will meet you halfway. I hope you find a love that’s faithful. You look at them and you just know there isn’t anyone that can shake what you guys have. I hope you find a love that forgives you. The type of person who can see you make mistakes but also helps you to learn from them. The type of person who can see you at your worst and still think you’re incredible. The type of person who understands you aren’t perfect but looks at you like you’re the greatest th...

Sometimes being alone sucks. there is nobody to share your happy news with or rant your heart out. you unlock your phone and there are no notifications or messages from friends or family. On some days, it becomes harder to breathe because all you can hear is yourself and the deafening silence. your heart cries but your eyes don't give out your sadness. for those days, you need to learn how to pick your broken pieces and glue them back with love. You need to figure out a way to make your heart happy without another person. Go on coffee dates with yourself and pick random books from the library to explore your interest. cook yourself your favorite meal occasionally and treat yourself well. Learn things you don't know but are important so that you manage on your own just fine. When life throws hardships at you, you stumble, stop and then bounce back harder.  On those days, you realize that as long as you have your own back, you can smile through another pain, and keep that hope al...

Words are sweet.  Words are mandatory.  But I believe that love is born when they call you between their busy daily details. When they cancel something to see you for minutes. When they make effort to see you happy. When they talk to you about things they never discuss with anyone else. When they make you feel safe and surrounded. When no one would make you feel less when they're around. Love looks better by beautiful photos, sweet words, and little gifts. But it lives by care, safety, and effort. ❤️

Wait for someone respectful, not only in the beginning stages of the relationship when things are bright and beautiful, but also when things get hard. Wait for someone who respects your boundaries and does not force you to do things that you’re not willing or ready to do. Wait for someone who is giving and does not keep count of the good things they do for you. Wait for someone who challenges you mentally. Someone who inspires you to be a better person. Wait for someone who takes their time to learn and understand you. Wait for someone who is consistent with their efforts in showing you how much they care about you. Wait for someone who wants to be part of your world, and wants you to be part of theirs. Wait for someone who lets you know you’re on their mind, someone who checks in on you, someone who wants you to know that they care for you. Wait for someone who is willing to commit to you, someone who is willing to choose you. Wait for someone who makes love feel easy, calm. Like comi...

I want things to be different. I desperately do. I’ve always held out hope that we would find a way if we just tried hard enough. If we fought hard enough. If we gave it everything we had. I mean, doesn’t the universe honor that- if two people are willing to risk so much to be together? That’s not the case, though. Because some things don’t work, even if you believe wholeheartedly that they should. Everything in my bones screams at me that maybe there is another chance for us out there. I would love to cling to that idea. If I did, then I could reach out to you again, without hesitation, to bring that chance to life. Yet the sadness and finality of everything sits on my chest like a weight. We aren’t meant for each other. If we were, then You would’ve sacrificed everything when  you had the chance. If we were, you wouldn’t have looked to other people to fill the space I held. If we were, you would’ve told me how you felt when it made sense to. If we were, I would’ve told you how I ...

If you're still single the world will tell you different stories if you're still 30 years old. Most of the society will be inquired. If you work they feel more difficult about you than you do. Questions will ask ′′ Why don't you get married ", ′′ Haven't you found someone to marry yet ", ′′ Don't go looking for much ", ′′ If you find the right one, get married soon ", Many of these questions arise more about you than you do. Will be. This will matter to those around you more than your family members. Unmarried people will kill. If unmarried people get angry or upset when there is a minor problem, they will say that it is also a problem that arises because of their unmarriedness. Those around realize that it's because they're stressed. I think marriage should happen not on anyone's influence. Marriage shouldn't rush until you find the right person. Otherwise there is only a lifetime of regrets. Such regrettable marriages are the ma...