Sunday, May 8, 2022

Protective Man

Men are protective in nature. When a man loves, he protects without keeping any limitations. Men protect what is valuable for them. 

Protect your wife from other women, don't make other women feel comfortable to bad mouth your wife or disrespect her just because you allow it. Females will treat your wife based on how you treat her.

Protect your wife from your parents and siblings. When you hear them talking badly about the woman you chose and who bore you children tell them "Mom, dad I honor you but kindly show respect to the woman I am building a home with"

Protect your wife from your friends who mock her and speak so casually about her.  Those friends might leave you in a few months but your wife is with you for life till the day you close your eyes. If anything happens to you, she will be there for you no matter what. When they make fun of her, they are making fun of you, you two are one. Never let anyone to make fun of her.

Protect your wife from physical abuse, yes you are masculine and have the ability to inflict physical pain, but don't abuse that physical power. If you are angry, walk away; if you two have a disagreement, find a mature way to talk about it; if you get caught doing wrong, own up to your mistake, don't silence your wife through violence to get away with it. 

Protect your wife physically and emotionally. Don't call her names and hurl insults at her to kill her self esteem and get her to do what you want her to do. Inspire to be better, don't intimidate her to be lesser; that is what it means to be a protective man. Put your deep voice to purposeful use.

Protect your children from bullies. When your children come home crying because someone called them ugly, pathetic, good for nothing;  push back and speak life and power to your children, tell them they are good looking, blessed, great and special. Don't be silent when your loved ones are under attack. Always be there for your loved ones.

If anything happens to your marriage and family, it will be asked, "Where was the man of this home?". Be a responsible man. Be a responsible man, always protect them and be there. End of the day what matters the most is your family. Your happiness will depends on your family. 

We as women, expect for you to be a protective man. Every women love to be in the arms of a protective boyfriend or a husband.

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