Days without you…

It isn't easy being so in love with you and not being able to see you every day. There are times when I'd give anything just to be able to gaze into your eyes or hold you in my arms, even for a few minutes. 

I always feel incomplete, like a part of me is missing, when we're not together. I know that right now this is how things have to be, but that doesn't make it any easier to bear. 

Every day without you reminds me of the joy you add to my life, joy that I'm missing. So don't forget that I love you, that I'm thinking of you, and that I'm counting every minute until we're together again. I really miss you! Please come back.

Emotions of a Girl

Bro never dismiss your girl’s emotions. sometimes you can lack communication , lack emotion, and you don’t listen to her when she needs you to listen to her. 

When something’s bothering her she’s telling you because she wants you to change it , she wants you to fix it. Something is on her mind that she wants to communicate with you, and she wants you to understand how she feels & why she feels the way she does. Sometimes you don’t take that into consideration because you think it’s something small. Just because it’s small to you doesn’t mean it’s small to her. It could be a big deal to her, something that’s real heavy on her heart & heavy on her mind and she wants to communicate these things with you. It might be something you don’t wanna talk about but regardless if you want to or not, it’s something that’s important to her. 

So man up & understand where your girl is coming from.

Let him miss you….

Let him miss you. Because if you don't, he will grow tired of you, he will get sick of you, he will be bored of you, he will start taking you for granted, he will begin to get too comfortable with you, he will think that you'll always be available, he will not appreciate you as much, he will not value you like he's supposed to, he will not enjoy your company like he did before, he will say you're not giving him enough space, he will think you're being too clingy, he will become annoyed of you, he will slowly resent you, he will not love you the way you love him. You have to show him that you don't need to be talking to him every hour, that you don't need to be seeing him every day, that you don't need to always be around him to feel happy because what that does is give him too much power over you and he may feel like he can get away with not caring as much or not putting in as much effort because he knows you're always going to be there. It's healthy to have some distance between you and him and it's not a bad thing to spend some time apart every now and then. 

So, let him miss you, because I'm sure that lately, it feels like you've been the only one that's missing him.

The Love You Deserve

 I hope you find a love that’s easy. Really easy. The type of love where there aren’t any mixed signals, just you and this person looking at each other across the room and know you each have it best. I hope you find a love that’s selfless. The type of person who would do anything for you with no questions asked. The type of love where someone simply has your best interest at heart. The type of love where your happiness makes up so much of theirs.

I hope you find a love that’s willing to make sacrifices. The type of person who will meet you halfway. I hope you find a love that’s faithful. You look at them and you just know there isn’t anyone that can shake what you guys have. I hope you find a love that forgives you. The type of person who can see you make mistakes but also helps you to learn from them. The type of person who can see you at your worst and still think you’re incredible. The type of person who understands you aren’t perfect but looks at you like you’re the greatest thing that’s ever happened to them, flaws and all.

I hope you find a love that supports you. Someone who not only supports your dreams but wants to see you do well more than you do. I hope you find a love that will fight for you. Someone who will always be in your corner. Someone who will always choose you and the relationship you have. I hope you find someone who would anything to be with you. The type of person who won’t let you walk away but goes after you if you try to. I hope you find someone who heals you. I hope you find someone who teaches you that you didn’t deserve what happened to you in the past. I hope you find a love that appreciates you.

I hope you find the type of love that never stops saying thank you. The type of love that even after a long time they are still impressed by what you do for them. Someone who truly values you for all you are and the person you make them. I hope you find a love that’s your best friend. Your loudest laugh. Your biggest smile. Your number one fan. Your happiest memories. You deserve it.