Days without you…

It isn't easy being so in love with you and not being able to see you every day. There are times when I'd give anything just to be able to gaze into your eyes or hold you in my arms, even for a few minutes. 

I always feel incomplete, like a part of me is missing, when we're not together. I know that right now this is how things have to be, but that doesn't make it any easier to bear. 

Every day without you reminds me of the joy you add to my life, joy that I'm missing. So don't forget that I love you, that I'm thinking of you, and that I'm counting every minute until we're together again. I really miss you! Please come back.

Emotions of a Girl

Bro never dismiss your girl’s emotions. sometimes you can lack communication , lack emotion, and you don’t listen to her when she needs you to listen to her. 

When something’s bothering her she’s telling you because she wants you to change it , she wants you to fix it. Something is on her mind that she wants to communicate with you, and she wants you to understand how she feels & why she feels the way she does. Sometimes you don’t take that into consideration because you think it’s something small. Just because it’s small to you doesn’t mean it’s small to her. It could be a big deal to her, something that’s real heavy on her heart & heavy on her mind and she wants to communicate these things with you. It might be something you don’t wanna talk about but regardless if you want to or not, it’s something that’s important to her. 

So man up & understand where your girl is coming from.

Let him miss you….

Let him miss you. Because if you don't, he will grow tired of you, he will get sick of you, he will be bored of you, he will start taking you for granted, he will begin to get too comfortable with you, he will think that you'll always be available, he will not appreciate you as much, he will not value you like he's supposed to, he will not enjoy your company like he did before, he will say you're not giving him enough space, he will think you're being too clingy, he will become annoyed of you, he will slowly resent you, he will not love you the way you love him. You have to show him that you don't need to be talking to him every hour, that you don't need to be seeing him every day, that you don't need to always be around him to feel happy because what that does is give him too much power over you and he may feel like he can get away with not caring as much or not putting in as much effort because he knows you're always going to be there. It's healthy to have some distance between you and him and it's not a bad thing to spend some time apart every now and then. 

So, let him miss you, because I'm sure that lately, it feels like you've been the only one that's missing him.

The Love You Deserve

 I hope you find a love that’s easy. Really easy. The type of love where there aren’t any mixed signals, just you and this person looking at each other across the room and know you each have it best. I hope you find a love that’s selfless. The type of person who would do anything for you with no questions asked. The type of love where someone simply has your best interest at heart. The type of love where your happiness makes up so much of theirs.

I hope you find a love that’s willing to make sacrifices. The type of person who will meet you halfway. I hope you find a love that’s faithful. You look at them and you just know there isn’t anyone that can shake what you guys have. I hope you find a love that forgives you. The type of person who can see you make mistakes but also helps you to learn from them. The type of person who can see you at your worst and still think you’re incredible. The type of person who understands you aren’t perfect but looks at you like you’re the greatest thing that’s ever happened to them, flaws and all.

I hope you find a love that supports you. Someone who not only supports your dreams but wants to see you do well more than you do. I hope you find a love that will fight for you. Someone who will always be in your corner. Someone who will always choose you and the relationship you have. I hope you find someone who would anything to be with you. The type of person who won’t let you walk away but goes after you if you try to. I hope you find someone who heals you. I hope you find someone who teaches you that you didn’t deserve what happened to you in the past. I hope you find a love that appreciates you.

I hope you find the type of love that never stops saying thank you. The type of love that even after a long time they are still impressed by what you do for them. Someone who truly values you for all you are and the person you make them. I hope you find a love that’s your best friend. Your loudest laugh. Your biggest smile. Your number one fan. Your happiest memories. You deserve it. 

Make your heart happy without another person

Sometimes being alone sucks. there is nobody to share your happy news with or rant your heart out. you unlock your phone and there are no notifications or messages from friends or family.

On some days, it becomes harder to breathe because all you can hear is yourself and the deafening silence. your heart cries but your eyes don't give out your sadness. for those days, you need to learn how to pick your broken pieces and glue them back with love.

You need to figure out a way to make your heart happy without another person. Go on coffee dates with yourself and pick random books from the library to explore your interest. cook yourself your favorite meal occasionally and treat yourself well. Learn things you don't know but are important so that you manage on your own just fine.

When life throws hardships at you, you stumble, stop and then bounce back harder.  On those days, you realize that as long as you have your own back, you can smile through another pain, and keep that hope alive.

You cannot stop the inevitable, but you can always be prepared. besides, taking good care of yourself is just another term for self-love. so, love yourself whole and be your biggest support system so if someday, you are all alone, you don't feel lonely.

It's not the way they say that they love you....

Words are sweet. 

Words are mandatory. 

But I believe that love is born when they call you between their busy daily details.

When they cancel something to see you for minutes.

When they make effort to see you happy.

When they talk to you about things they never discuss with anyone else.

When they make you feel safe and surrounded.

When no one would make you feel less when they're around.

Love looks better by beautiful photos, sweet words, and little gifts. But it lives by care, safety, and effort. ❤️

Wait for Someone Kind

Wait for someone respectful, not only in the beginning stages of the relationship when things are bright and beautiful, but also when things get hard. Wait for someone who respects your boundaries and does not force you to do things that you’re not willing or ready to do.

Wait for someone who is giving and does not keep count of the good things they do for you.

Wait for someone who challenges you mentally. Someone who inspires you to be a better person.

Wait for someone who takes their time to learn and understand you.

Wait for someone who is consistent with their efforts in showing you how much they care about you.

Wait for someone who wants to be part of your world, and wants you to be part of theirs.

Wait for someone who lets you know you’re on their mind, someone who checks in on you, someone who wants you to know that they care for you.

Wait for someone who is willing to commit to you, someone who is willing to choose you.

Wait for someone who makes love feel easy, calm. Like coming home.

Wait for someone sincere. Someone who doesn’t confuse you because their actions match their words. Wait for someone honest.

Wait for someone who does their absolute best to not hurt you, someone who strives to protect your heart.

Wait for someone who will choose you over and over and over again. Love is a choice you make every single day. You deserve to find the kind of person who shows up for what you share, someone who believes in it.

Wait for someone who’s not perfect, but rather, real. Perfect is an illusion. Real is where you find something rare and special.

Wait for someone who reminds you that love was always meant to be soft. 

I Miss You, But I Understand We Aren’t Meant For Each Other

I want things to be different. I desperately do.

I’ve always held out hope that we would find a way if we just tried hard enough. If we fought hard enough. If we gave it everything we had. I mean, doesn’t the universe honor that- if two people are willing to risk so much to be together?

That’s not the case, though. Because some things don’t work, even if you believe wholeheartedly that they should.

Everything in my bones screams at me that maybe there is another chance for us out there. I would love to cling to that idea. If I did, then I could reach out to you again, without hesitation, to bring that chance to life. Yet the sadness and finality of everything sits on my chest like a weight. We aren’t meant for each other.

If we were, then You would’ve sacrificed everything when  you had the chance. If we were, you wouldn’t have looked to other people to fill the space I held. If we were, you would’ve told me how you felt when it made sense to. If we were, I would’ve told you how I felt, even if it meant scaring you a little.

There are memories and moments where I understand why I felt so sure about us. Our genuine connection, the ease in which we opened up to each other, our chemistry that made everything feel as if it were one fire. The tender moments where we held onto each other, silent promises that one day we’d figure it all out.

Yet on the other side, I remember when we’d push each other away, when you would grow distant and detached, not giving me a reason why. When I would reach out to you in a way that felt clingy and dependent. When I would turn to someone else to distract myself from the hurt, and how I wouldn’t change my mind even when you showed up again.

I remember the endless circles we went around, how we called them learning experiences instead of bad habits. We would always say we would do better in the future, that we had our whole lives to figure this out. But I can’t spend the rest of my life being dizzy, even if it’s without you.

I miss you more than you could ever realize. I still pick up the phone, ready to text you about something that happened. I still ache when I see you post something on social media, and I want to reach out. I think about you more often than I would care to admit- to myself or anyone else.

I know it’s okay to miss you because whatever we had was strong and beautiful. To pretend like I don’t miss you would be a disservice to everything we went through. Yet I’m finally in a place where I know that missing you isn’t a sign to try again. It’s a sign that we had a great thing. That’s it, that’s all.

So please know I miss you, but I do understand we aren’t meant for each other.

But I’ll still remember us for the rest of my life and I will learn to be okay with that.

Are you still single and turning the age of 30?

If you're still single the world will tell you different stories if you're still 30 years old. Most of the society will be inquired. If you work they feel more difficult about you than you do. Questions will ask ′′ Why don't you get married ", ′′ Haven't you found someone to marry yet ", ′′ Don't go looking for much ", ′′ If you find the right one, get married soon ", Many of these questions arise more about you than you do. Will be. This will matter to those around you more than your family members. Unmarried people will kill.

If unmarried people get angry or upset when there is a minor problem, they will say that it is also a problem that arises because of their unmarriedness. Those around realize that it's because they're stressed.

I think marriage should happen not on anyone's influence. Marriage shouldn't rush until you find the right person. Otherwise there is only a lifetime of regrets. Such regrettable marriages are the majority in today's society. Why don't you spend your time on yourself until you find the right person for marriage. Do a fashion you like, have fun with friends, girlfriends, take a vacation, get the best of it at the right job. Learn, enjoy life to the fullest, enjoy loneliness, you can apply the time you've got for many things. Love yourself.

You will definitely miss moments like this after marriage. The more responsibilities in life, the more relationships you will later regret what you couldn't experience before marriage.

Enjoy life, to the fullest, by the chance you have!