Let him miss you. Because if you don't, he will grow tired of you, he will get sick of you, he will be bored of you, he will start taking you for granted, he will begin to get too comfortable with you, he will think that you'll always be available, he will not appreciate you as much, he will not value you like he's supposed to, he will not enjoy your company like he did before, he will say you're not giving him enough space, he will think you're being too clingy, he will become annoyed of you, he will slowly resent you, he will not love you the way you love him. You have to show him that you don't need to be talking to him every hour, that you don't need to be seeing him every day, that you don't need to always be around him to feel happy because what that does is give him too much power over you and he may feel like he can get away with not caring as much or not putting in as much effort because he knows you're always going to be there. It's healthy to have some distance between you and him and it's not a bad thing to spend some time apart every now and then.
So, let him miss you, because I'm sure that lately, it feels like you've been the only one that's missing him.
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